Millions of folks travel home for the holidays. But soon after they arrive, some wish that they had not made that trek to be with their family. Being around your family is a mixed bag, because they know what makes you happy…but they also know how to tap dance on your last nerve.
Here’s a few of the tips that I use when I head home, and I wanted to share them with you.
Spend Time with Each Person, Individually: Sometimes, I fall into the trap of feeling like I’ve connected with everyone, because we are in the same room together. But, that’s a false notion.
You are an individual. I am an individual. And, we both have different dreams and hopes for the future. So, make it a point to catch up with each person. And, be willing to meet people on their turf. By that I mean, if your sister likes underwater basket weaving…take your swimsuit and be prepared to learn how to weave!
Give Your Opinion Only When Asked: A lot of unnecessary squabbles can erupt when we intend to “help” people by giving our unsolicited opinion. Don’t fall for it!
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Put Away the Phone: Chances are that you have your phone with you 24/7, but you probably don’t have that much face to face time with your parents/aunts/uncles/nieces/nephews/cousins and/or grandparents. Live in the moment and be present. I leave my phone in my luggage while visiting my family, because I want them to have my full attention.
Focus on Fun: Make an effort to have fun together and create great memories. Whether it’s playing Taboo, or Cranium, or acting out a play…do a fun activity that includes everyone in your family. This will bring the family together, and you should have a few good laughs as a result. Three years ago my family and I made up a silly dance and recorded it. I tried to share it with you, but the file is too large for Blogger (insert sad face).
I’m headed to Texas next week to spend time with my husband’s family. And, we have a traditional Nicaraguan activity planned…making nacatamales. I am excited to learn more about their family’s holiday traditions, and spend time with them. I’ll share photos with you when I return.
I hope these tips help you make the most of your time with your family. By the way, do you have any Christmas family traditions? If so, I’d love to hear about them. I was reading an article on WebMD about the habits of happy families and traditions was key. So, I am looking to learn!
Thank you for stopping by to visit and Merry Christmas. Love, Simone
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