Now, for the good stuff! Here are the things that we should do.
DO
- listen.
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dress appropriately.
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take compliments.
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smile.
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flirt.
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MAKE SOME DECISIONS.
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ask about his family.
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ask if he has eaten lunch or dinner.
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invite him somewhere he wants to be, like a basketball game.
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tell him about a movie you would like to see and buy the tickets online before you get there.
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look at his strengths and see if they could help with your weaknesses and vice versa.
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make us feel important.
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pay attention to details…the smallest thing sometimes can be the most important.
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have a good connection with his mom…that goes very far…whenever she likes you it is a plus.
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always be yourself.
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be proactive in the relationship, but not forward, include him in activities with your friends.
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offer advice on generic areas of his life where he could use help, but don’t be critical.
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try to compromise.
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be honest and humble (in the sense that you don’t know everything).
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dress classy. you cannot have on a mini skirt and try to be a wife. i cannot take you anywhere and you can not meet my family.
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be understanding when I don’t answer the phone. maybe i want to take a nap.
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be cultured, know things.
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be approachable (its hard for us to make a move). if you have a look on your face like “boy, get on somewhere.” it doesn’t help.
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make us feel like we are undiscovered michael jordans’, when in reality we have no hand or foot coordination.
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(in short ladies, we should build them up. not tear them down.)